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Many Live Action readers may remember New York Magazine<\/em><\/a>‘s piece chronicling the abortion testimonials of 26 women in late 2013. The stories were mostly sad — tragic, really. Women were coerced, manipulated, unsupported by the baby’s father, and felt that abortion was their only means of self-preservation in the face of crisis<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A few, however, recalled their stories flippantly, or stated that, not only was there no regret about the decision, but that they were happy about it. What do you do, if, say, you’re explaining the effects of abortion (such as Post Abortion Stress Syndrome<\/a>) to a woman, and they surprise you with the statement that they are “happy” about their abortion? Pro-life educator Josh Brahm weighs in<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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The question was this:\u00a0If a girl comes up and says that Roe vs. Wade has improved her life, and talks about all the things she has been able to do after an abortion like go to college, what do you think is the best way of responding to that?<\/em><\/p>\n

Excellent question. Off the top of my head, I think I\u2019d say something like this:<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad that you didn\u2019t suffer any physical complications of your abortion, and that you aren\u2019t suffering from the depression that some of my friends who are also post-abortive have experienced.<\/em><\/p>\n

Let me ask you a question that\u2019s a little more philosophical though. Do you think there any other factors that people should consider as they try to assess whether abortion is morally right or wrong? Do you think that if some women are not negatively affected by abortion, that proves that abortion is morally neutral?<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

What I\u2019m doing here is trying to lead her to discussing other things besides whether a particular woman is happy or sad about her abortion. I want to get us talking about the central question of the abortion debate:\u00a0is the unborn a valuable human being or not?<\/strong>\u00a0We could demonstrate that abortion is wrong even if every single post-abortive woman had positive feelings about her abortion.<\/p>\n

You could also have a discussion about the difference between right\/wrong and wise\/foolish. Arguably, some pro-life slogans make a stronger case that abortion is foolish, that it\u2019s not a wise decision because of how it affects some women and society. I think women should consider whether abortion is not a wise decision, but we also want them thinking about how some things can be wrong even if they don\u2019t affect us negatively. For example, the head of a corporation that irreparably harms the environment or kills whales around Antarctica may not feel any guilt from that, and he may not suffer any loss in profit either. Yet it may still be immoral to harm whales or the environment in that way. (That would probably be a more helpful example than a plantation owner who doesn\u2019t feel bad about owning slaves.)<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s what I would never do: Say that you don\u2019t believe the person in front of you. \u201cBut everybody is affected by abortion!\u201d \u201cYou may not feel guilt yet, but you will later.\u201d Statements like that will not be helpful.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The post \u201cWhat Should You Say to a Woman Who is Happy That She Had an Abortion?<\/a>\u201c\u00a0originally appeared at\u00a0JoshBrahm.com<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Many Live Action readers may remember New York Magazine‘s piece chronicling the abortion testimonials of 26 women in late 2013. The stories were mostly sad — tragic, really. Women were coerced, manipulated, unsupported by the baby’s father, and felt that abortion was their only means of self-preservation in the face of crisis. 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