{"id":329895,"date":"2025-04-20T08:53:33","date_gmt":"2025-04-20T13:53:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=329895"},"modified":"2025-04-17T01:01:04","modified_gmt":"2025-04-17T06:01:04","slug":"mailmans-kid-kevin-learned-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/mailmans-kid-kevin-learned-truth\/","title":{"rendered":"After years of being called &#8216;the mailman&#8217;s kid,&#8217; Kevin learned the horrifying truth"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p>Kevin McMahon was the third of four children, but he didn&#8217;t look like his siblings, and he always felt something was off. His siblings would often joke that he was &#8220;the mailman&#8217;s kid.&#8221; After his niece took an at-home DNA test, Kevin&#8217;s sister, Carol Vignola, discovered the reason why.<\/p>\n<p>Kevin McMahon had been <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/news\/us-news\/was-never-siblings-turns-was-switched-birth-nyc-hospital-says-rcna200391\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">switched at birth<\/a>. Birth records at Jamaica Hospital, where Kevin was born, show that another baby boy was born on the same day within hours of Kevin to another couple with the last name \u2014 McMahon. Carol&#8217;s DNA results showed that she was a direct relative of that man, named Ross. Kevin, now 64, has filed a lawsuit against the hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-graf\">\u201cTwo Caucasian mothers with the same last name, both giving birth to baby boys on the same day. They were switched before the birth certificates were even signed,\u201d explained Kevin&#8217;s attorney Jeremy Schiowitz.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-graf\">He added, \u201cThere\u2019s no mystery as to what happened. Jamaica Hospital switched the babies. The DNA proves it. The mystery is, how did they let this happen?\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qOcx_e7ODcI?si=A0vQAyxdidNUlSZk\" width=\"640\" height=\"355\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>While Kevin loves the siblings he grew up with, their childhoods were not easy. Their mother was an alcoholic, and the children were cared for by their paternal grandmother \u2014 except for Kevin, who was sent to live with a family friend.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-graf\">\u201cI was treated differently by my grandmother,\u201d he said. \u201cShe didn\u2019t like me, and in time, I took that to mean I wasn\u2019t likable.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He feels he would have had a lot in common with his birth parents, but they both died before the switch was discovered. \u201cI feel I could have shared so much with my birth parents, and I didn\u2019t get to do that,\u201d he said. \u201cIt certainly would have changed the whole course of my life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He blames the hospital for making &#8220;one calamitous mistake&#8221; that changed everything for him.<\/p>\n<p>Kevin&#8217;s story is an example of how important it is for children and adults to know their biological families and have a sense of biological identity. Being taken from his biological parents, though raised by people who believed he was their biological son, led to an identity crisis for Kevin. He always knew that there was something not quite right between him and the family he was raised with, even though everyone involved believed they <em>were<\/em> genetically related.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.americanbar.org\/content\/dam\/aba\/publications\/litigation_committees\/childrights\/child-separation-memo\/parent-child-separation-trauma-memo.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Research<\/a> shows that being separated from one&#8217;s birth family can cause post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns.\u00a0 The Association for Psychological Science <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologicalscience.org\/publications\/observer\/obsonline\/how-mother-child-separation-causes-neurobiological-vulnerability-into-adulthood.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">reported<\/a> in 2018, &#8220;When children are separated from their parents, it can have traumatic repercussions for kids&#8217; lives down the line.&#8221; Bonding between mother and child begins in the womb, where preborn children develop a preferential response to maternal scents and sounds that continue after birth, according to Myron Hofer, director of the Sackler Institute for Developmental Psychology at Columbia University until his 2011 retirement.<\/p>\n<p>While adoption organizations have changed course to focus on <em>open<\/em> adoptions, allowing adopted children to know their biological families, the fertility industry is creating children to be <em>intentionally separated<\/em> from their biological family and birth mothers through the use of surrogacy and sperm\/egg donation. The industry is knowingly causing trauma in children to meet the desires of adults who are paying top dollar for babies to be created for them in a lab using donor sperm, donor eggs, or both. Those children are then carried by surrogates, with whom they bond while in the womb, before being intentionally and immediately taken from them at birth.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the purposeful infliction of trauma \u2014 not unlike the trauma Kevin experienced.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/actnow.io\/G3Bhv6M\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-325597\" src=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/LA25DefundPP_EmailBannerAd-02-1-700x251.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"251\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/LA25DefundPP_EmailBannerAd-02-1-700x251.png 700w, https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/LA25DefundPP_EmailBannerAd-02-1-300x107.png 300w, https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/LA25DefundPP_EmailBannerAd-02-1-768x275.png 768w, https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/LA25DefundPP_EmailBannerAd-02-1-500x179.png 500w, https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/LA25DefundPP_EmailBannerAd-02-1.png 1167w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kevin McMahon was the third of four children, but he didn&#8217;t look like his siblings, and he always felt something was off. His siblings would often joke that he was &#8220;the mailman&#8217;s kid.&#8221; After his niece took an at-home DNA test, Kevin&#8217;s sister, Carol Vignola, discovered the reason why. 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