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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this guest post are solely those of the guest author. Minor edits have been made for clarity.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u00a0have an amazing son named Andrew, but everyone knows him as Andy. He\u2019s a three-year-old miracle baby diagnosed with a rare genetic condition called Trisomy 18.<\/p>\n

Trisomy 18 is where the 18th chromosome has three copies instead of two like a typical person would have. Some of us in the Trisomy community call them “extra chromie homies.” If you Google this diagnosis, the results are pretty much all negative. We are here to show the world that a child diagnosed with Trisomy 18 (otherwise known as Edwards Syndrome) truly\u00a0is<\/strong>\u00a0compatible with life, when aggressive medical intervention is used appropriately.<\/p>\n

Every cell in Andy\u2019s body is affected by T18, meaning he has full Trisomy 18. He has many different diagnoses that branch off from having this genetic condition. And he is absolutely thriving thanks to other trisomy parents who have helped us along the way, and because his dad and I have advocated for him and have not taken “no” for an answer. We have traveled hundreds of miles away for fair care, and we are heavy in therapies, unconditional love and devotion, and aggressive medical intervention \u2014 including but not limited to major heart repair surgery at four months old.<\/p>\n

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Photo courtesy of Jessica Morales<\/p><\/div>\n

Andy was born weighing just 4 pounds and 5 ounces and measuring 16 1\/2 inches long. He was born breathing on his own but could not keep his oxygen saturation up, so they gave him oxygen immediately after birth and intubated him shortly after. He had his first surgery at only a few hours old, to repair his omphalocele, a sac containing his intestines. He rocked that surgery.<\/p>\n

He also was born with heart defects, which were holes in his heart and other heart issues, and was in heart failure. He also had brain defects, and he was just under two weeks old when we were told he wouldn\u2019t receive heart repair surgery because of his brain. Andy had premature lungs and \u00a0chronic lung disease, and he was intubated for a little over two weeks, with a tube down his throat and a ventilator breathing for him. After three failed attempts to remove the breathing tube, the fourth time was a charm. He then weaned down to BIPAP, then CPAP, then high flow. That\u2019s what he went home on. After two months of being in the NICU he graduated!<\/p>\n

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Morales family (courtesy of Jessica Morales)<\/p><\/div>\n

He has always fought so hard. He went on to have his heart repaired at four months old. Our home hospital denied his heart repair surgery, so we flew to Cincinnati Children\u2019s in Ohio, and only two days after being there Andy got his heart repaired! We drove him home to Georgia six days later. We are so grateful to Cincinnati Children’s for saving our boy and giving us a wonderful life with him. Then after two long years of being on oxygen 24\/7, his lungs grew strong enough to breathe on their own with no support.<\/p>\n

I can vividly remember the first time I heard the words \u201cTrisomy 18.\u201d I can remember laying on the table and the ultrasound tech looking so concerned during my ultrasound. She left the room and came back in with the doctor. As I laid there on that cold table in fear of what was going on, he began to explain to me all of the defects they had seen. After he explained and showed me everything that was wrong with Andy on the screen, he told me an amniocentesis test was necessary.<\/p>\n

I did not know then what I know now. So we proceeded. I can remember crying my eyes out in fear as they pushed the long needle into my pregnant belly where Andy was.<\/p>\n

They told me that Andy had no chance and would die either in my womb, or as soon as I gave birth, or shortly after. They tried to talk me into a medical termination due to the many defects they saw. It was the first time I had ever even met this doctor, and he told me all of these things. It was one of the hardest things I\u2019ve ever been through.<\/p>\n

I refused a termination and never went back to that clinic. I am so glad he was wrong. Three years later, and my Trisomy 18 child is thriving. He is so dang strong.<\/p>\n

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Andy and his big brother, Gabe (photo courtesy of Jessica Morales)<\/p><\/div>\n

These days, Andy is doing amazing things. He\u2019s learning to communicate with a tobii Dynavox eye gaze communication device. He\u2019s weight bearing and standing up with minimal assistance. He\u2019s working hard in his gait trainer to take steps, and he loves to crawl\/knee walk in the gait trainer we have fixed for him to be able to do these things! We spend a lot of our free time going to his big brother’s basketball games, and Andy is his biggest cheerleader.<\/p>\n

My son was born missing his radial bone in his left arm and a piece of radial bone in his right. This does not define him or hold him back at all. He has learned to compensate and use his limbs functionally. He doesn\u2019t know anything different \u2014\u00a0that\u2019s the beauty of it all. To him, it\u2019s not a setback. He loves his life and he is amazing.<\/p>\n

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Essay by Andy’s brother Gabe on Trisomy 18 (courtesy of Jessica Morales)<\/p><\/div>\n

Doctors told me that having a special needs child negatively affects siblings. They were so wrong. His big brother loves him so much. They have a beautiful bond, and Gabe has made it a point to ask me and want to be involved in Andy\u2019s medical care. So I taught him all of it. He changed out his first g tube recently! He also chose to do the most admirable thing possible in front of his whole class, and he wrote an essay for school about Andy and all special needs children\/people with disabilities.<\/p>\n

There is so much hope in this diagnosis. In my pain I found my purpose. In my trials and tribulations I found triumph. And with fighting for my child, I found a love greater than anything I have ever known. Andy is one of many who are living and thriving with this diagnosis.<\/p>\n

There are not only children but many adults who are having fulfilling and wonderful lives who are diagnosed with Trisomy 18. And we can\u2019t forget about our Trisomy angels, who will be remembered forever and whose lives mattered and carried so much purpose and meaning. They are all truly compatible with and worthy of life.<\/p>\n

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