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The fertility industry is a billion-dollar<\/a> industry which many consider to be predatory, profiting off of the emotions of adults who want to be parents but have been unable to conceive naturally. Now, to avoid the heavy financial toll of IVF, some couples are turning to social media \u2014 where other couples are ‘transferring ownership’ of their children to strangers.<\/p>\n

Embryo adoption<\/strong><\/p>\n

Embryo adoption has risen<\/a> in popularity in the United States due to a major ethical concern in the booming fertility industry: so-called ‘extra’ embryos.<\/p>\n

In the U.S., the annual donated embryo transfer rate more than tripled<\/a><\/em> from 2004 to 2019, with 8,457 births resulting from embryo adoption during that time frame. However, the couples who create embryos often make more than they are willing to carry to term and raise. Paris Hilton, for example, appears to have dozens<\/a> of frozen children.<\/p>\n

The practice of adopting embryos has become popular among Christians who view it as a life-saving act towards these perpetually frozen humans. Dr. Paul and Susan Lim adopted<\/a> an embryo because IVF was not an option for them \u2014 as it isn’t<\/a> for many Christians who know life begins at fertilization. Dr. Lim called it a \u201crescue operation.\u201d He explained to The New York Times, \u201cThese children are being abandoned in a frozen state. If they don\u2019t get adopted, they\u2019re dead.\u201d<\/p>\n

Yet, some who choose IVF and want to ‘donate’ their embryos \u2014 their children \u2014 to another couple don’t necessarily like the way most embryo adoption agencies operate, including that they likely screen potential parents the way that traditional adoption agencies do.<\/p>\n

Snowflakes<\/a>, for example, screens for criminal history and child abuse records and educates the parents on how to parent an adopted child. Some organizations<\/a> do not allow the embryos to be ‘adopted’ by a couple who plans to use a surrogate, and will only allow male and female couples<\/a>, who have been married for at least three years, to ‘adopt.’<\/p>\n

But embryo ‘adoption’ is actually considered the transfer of ownership<\/em>. This is different from adoption, and in some cases this language changes the way these tiny human beings are treated<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Giving babies away on the internet<\/strong><\/p>\n

The rules of embryo adoption organizations were an issue for Emily, who created embryos with a sperm donor and is raising them with her wife. They are raising two children and decided they didn’t want the other embryos they created. Emily decided to offer the embryos up on Facebook and found a gay couple who was seeking out embryos.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wanted to donate them to another queer couple,\u201d Emily told The Philadelphia Inquirer<\/a>. She and her wife met with the fertility clinic and lawyers, and legally “transferred ownership” of the embryos to the gay couple from Facebook.<\/p>\n

Likewise, another couple, Ryann Hendrickson and her husband, “transferred ownership” of their embryos to a woman who was looking for embryos. She said she felt a connection immediately because they were both breast cancer survivors.<\/p>\n

The ‘transferring of ownership’ isn’t just how The Philadelphia Inquirer refers to the adoption of an embryo. That’s what it legally is.<\/p>\n

The Embryo Adoption Awareness Center<\/a> explains it this way (emphasis added): \u201cJust to be very clear and transparent on all levels, in the U.S. embryo adoption is not considered a legal form of adoption because embryos are considered property, not people<\/strong>. Therefore, the process is governed by property contract law, not by adoption law. We are applying the best practices of adoption to the whole process, but adoption law does not apply.\u201d<\/p>\n

An erroneous understanding of when life begins has opened the door for this unethical treatment of human embryos. No human being can be owned by another human being \u2014 not in the United States. Yet that is how these children are being treated \u2014 stripped of their humanity and their dignity and sometimes simply given away like old furniture.<\/p>\n

The well-being of the children<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is unclear if either Emily or Ryann ran background checks<\/a> on any of the prospective parents to whom they gave their children. And none of them seemed to consider how the children<\/em> would feel about it in the future.<\/p>\n

But individuals who have been created using artificial reproductive technologies (ART) can offer us a glimpse of how these children \u2014 given away on social media \u2014 may someday feel.<\/p>\n

\u201cSomehow, somewhere, my parents developed the idea that they deserved to have a baby, and it didn\u2019t matter how much it cost, how many times it took, or how many died in the process,\u201d a woman conceived through ART told<\/a> the organization Them Before Us. \u201cThey deserved a child. And with an attitude like that, by the time I was born they thought they deserved to have the perfect child\u2026 as Dad defined a perfect child. And since they deserved a child, I was their property to be controlled, not a person or a gift to be treasured.\u201d<\/p>\n

One man, born through traditional surrogacy, explained<\/a>, \u201cSomething horrible happened to us at birth. We lost our mothers. They did not die, but they might as well have been dead because we lost them in the capacity of mother, and to a tiny baby, that feels like death\u2026 That makes us feel very rejected. That leaves a hole in our hearts whether we admit to it or it manifests some other way like in depression or a fear of getting close to someone else\u2026 \u201d<\/p>\n

And a woman raised by a gay couple explained, “I felt the loss. I felt the hole. As I grew, I tried to fill that hole with aunts, my dads\u2019 lesbian friends, and teachers. I remember asking my first grade teacher if I could call her \u2018mom.’ I asked that question of any woman who showed me any amount of love and affection. It was instinctive. I craved a mother\u2019s love even though I was well loved by my two gay dads<\/a>.”<\/p>\n

Furthermore, research from a Harvard Medical School study<\/a> informs us that a whopping 62%<\/strong> of children conceived through donor technologies, like surrogacy and IVF, consider ART to be immoral and unethical.<\/p>\n

As one girl explained,\u00a0\u201cIt bothers me that I cost money, that the one woman I want most in this life is a stranger yet 50% of me. Sometimes I wish I weren\u2019t born. I didn\u2019t ask for this<\/a><\/u>, and I never would have consented to it.\u201d<\/p>\n

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