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Six hundred people gathered at the Crossroads Pregnancy Center<\/a> fundraiser at the Royal Park Hotel in Rochester Hills on Friday night, March 1, to hear Melissa Ohden<\/a> speak. Ohden climbed the steps to the platform and took the microphone in her hand to begin. From the first sentence of her spectacular story, the assembly realized that these simple actions were extraordinary.<\/p>\n

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Abortion survivor and pro-life advocate Melissa Ohden.<\/p><\/div>\n

\u201cI shouldn\u2019t be standing here at all,\u201d she began. The beautiful and upbeat woman related her life\u2019s story as it began: a story of complexity, drama, and mercy.<\/p>\n

Thirty-five years ago, Ohden\u2019s unmarried nineteen-year-old mother was told that termination of her pregnancy was her only option. Pressured by her own family to have an abortion, the young woman\u2019s choice was no choice at all. She underwent a saline infusion abortion and returned to St. Luke\u2019s Hospital in Sioux City, Iowa, 5 days later to deliver her dead baby.<\/p>\n

The saline abortion, an injection of toxic salt solution into the amniotic fluid that surrounds a baby in the womb, scalds the unborn baby to death by burning through skin and into the organs. The process normally takes 72 hours, but in this case, it took much longer.<\/p>\n

They believed that the baby girl was dead when she was delivered at St. Luke\u2019s hospital on August 29, 1977, and they would have disposed of her, except that a nurse heard her “weak grunting noises” and made a decision that she legally did not have to make. She decided to give her care.<\/p>\n

The 2-lb., 14-oz. baby girl was estimated to be 31 weeks’ gestational age, which meant that her mother was 8 months pregnant when she underwent the saline abortion. Ohden stopped to allow the audience a moment to let out a collective gasp. “Yes, that should break our hearts,” she said, \u201cbut it should break our hearts whether a baby is 31 weeks or only 31 days old!\u201d<\/p>\n

Doctors thought Ohden would still die or at least suffer blindness, deafness, and emotional and mental disabilities. She had severe respiratory and liver problems, was too weak to suck, was fed by tubes in her head, and needed blood transfusions. \u201cOur world says that only certain lives are worth saving,\u201d Ohden observed. But the medical staff at St. Luke\u2019s named her, knitted her booties, fed her from a bottle, \u201cbecause they saw a person in need.\u201d Her adoptive parents did not hesitate to open hearts and home to Melissa. \u201cThey loved me into life!\u201d said Ohden. \u201cI am healed today because of their love, care, and prayers!\u201d<\/p>\n

Baby Melissa came home from the hospital after only three months and grew up feeling loved and wanted by her adoptive parents, who never told her of the conditions of her birth.<\/p>\n

At the age of 14, Melissa\u2019s older sister blurted out the secret, and her parents were forced to confess: \u201cYour mother had an abortion\u2026and you survived it!\u201d The revelation, in Ohden’s words, knocked the wind out of her. \u201cEverything hurt!\u201d she said. \u201cClutching my mother, I sobbed and sobbed that night\u2026\u201d The tears were for her family, for their pain, for the unborn children who could not come into the world. \u201cI am blessed to be alive!\u201d exclaims Ohden, \u201cI am not angry\u2026I am sad!\u201d The sadness is what she felt for her mother and father and their families. \u201cHow they must have felt the rest of their lives!\u201d<\/p>\n

Ohden knew that her life\u2019s journey would one day take the direction of speaking publicly about her story. Until that day, she prepared herself and sought to find her family. Why? \u201cI wanted my family to know I love them and forgive them,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

This heartfelt desire would be frustrated as attempts to make contact with her biological family only revealed the brokenness caused by the abortion. Overjoyed at having found her father living in her same city, Sioux City, she sent a letter to his office expressing her hope to hear from him. She waited for him, but he never wrote back.<\/p>\n

Years went by, and while googling him, Ohden found her father\u2019s obituary and learned that he had passed away at the age of 51, not long after she had contacted him. Sorry that she was never able to meet him, Ohden soon learned that her father\u2019s family had discovered her letter with his papers. The family had never known about the abortion.<\/p>\n

In an incredible irony, Ohden’s biological father\u2019s family found her on April 26, 2008, in the place where she was meant to die: St. Luke\u2019s Hospital. She had just given birth to her daughter, Olivia. Melissa met her grandfather and great aunt there, but she saw what happened when they learned the truth: they were hurting, ashamed, guilty, angry. \u201cThey were angry that they couldn\u2019t save me, guilty that it happened, upset because they would have adopted me if they had known,\u201d she said. \u201cEvery person in the family,\u201d Ohden said, \u201cwas touched by the abortion.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ohden expressed the deep emotion she feels knowing that she was aborted, that even the happy birth of her daughter evokes the painful enjoining of those victims who did not survive. \u201cMy daughter never would have lived if I had died!\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

As for Ohden\u2019s mother, she is still searching. She heard from her grandfather, the man who had coerced her mother into the abortion in the first place. He related that the family is estranged, and he no longer has any contact with his daughter. Ohden says she prays for her mother every night and still hopes to meet her someday.<\/p>\n

Ohden\u2019s journey, she tells the crowd, has not been easy or simple. But her forgiving spirit, thankfulness, and joy for life tirelessly persist in the certainty that God is using her to give His message of love and forgiveness to abortion survivors. She asks women and men not to be silent, but to speak about the impact abortion has had on their lives. She knows that the effects of abortion, even if the baby does not die, are devastating to families and have the power to produce guilt, shame, anger, and broken relationships.<\/p>\n

As Ohden\u2019s unusual mission unfolds, she continues to call people to take an active stand to save the lives of the unborn. Urging support for Crossroads Pregnancy Center<\/a> and all who work to support women in crisis pregnancies, she asks people to answer for themselves one question: \u201cWhat is your calling to the cause of life?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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