{"id":264921,"date":"2022-03-26T11:25:46","date_gmt":"2022-03-26T16:25:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=264921"},"modified":"2022-03-25T18:28:05","modified_gmt":"2022-03-25T23:28:05","slug":"dad-kids-disabilities-fights-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/dad-kids-disabilities-fights-back\/","title":{"rendered":"Dad of children with disabilities fights back as trolls tell him to stop having kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p>A father of three in the United Kingdom is speaking out after repeatedly being told to stop having kids \u2014 simply because two of his children have disabilities.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Seal has a six-year-old son, Henry, who is autistic, while 17-month-old Reggie has Down syndrome. Six-year-old Amelie and wife Leanne round out the family. Seal regularly shares their life together on TikTok. &#8220;I&#8217;ve been into doing awareness-raising work for many years,&#8221; Seal <a href=\"https:\/\/www.the-sun.com\/lifestyle\/4864541\/dad-blasts-vile-trolls-who-jeer-stop-having-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">told the Sun<\/a>. &#8220;I&#8217;ve done different campaigns raising awareness about different disabilities. When we found out my son, Reggie, had Down[] syndrome I started posting videos about that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He continued, &#8220;I saw a lot of responses from people who wanted to hear more about Down[] syndrome. Then I introduced my son, Henry, who has autism, and got a lot of questions about autism. I thought that if I started posting more about autism and Down[] syndrome, I could help more people.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>While many are supportive of his advocacy, others have attacked the family.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve had people comment &#8216;why do you keep having babies if they keep having disabilities?'&#8221; Seal said. &#8220;I just think it&#8217;s not about that. Whether they&#8217;ve got a disability or not, at the end of the day that&#8217;s my child and they&#8217;re there to be loved. I don&#8217;t know why it bothers people when it doesn&#8217;t bother me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/d6GewCpuC30\" width=\"640\" height=\"355\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/center>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, these comments are not a one-off rarity. Other commenters have remarked, &#8220;Have to agree&#8230; why keep bringing more disabled people into this world?&#8221; while another said, &#8220;I agree, stop having kids if they keep coming out sick.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ:<\/strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/double-amputee-model-disability-define\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>Double amputee and model shows the world that disability doesn\u2019t define her<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>People with disabilities regularly face insults, attacks, and criticism. One girl in a wheelchair was screamed at by a stranger, saying she <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/man-screams-wheelchair-aborted\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">should have been aborted<\/a>; others face bullying and abuse. Multiple politicians in the UK have openly called for children with disabilities to be <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/british-counciller-collin-brewer-resigns-after-saying-disabled-children-should-be-put-down\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">murdered<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/?s=ukip\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">forcibly aborted<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of attacking the people attacking his family, Seal hopes to combat their ignorance about disability.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t go after everyone who has something negative to say, and I don&#8217;t do it to be horrible or angry because otherwise, my message would lose its weight. If I was to go in all guns blazing, nobody would listen so I try to make light of the responses, unless they go too far and somebody calls your child an a***hole or something like that,&#8221; Seal said, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.walesonline.co.uk\/news\/uk-news\/dad-fights-back-against-trolls-23390837\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">according to Wales Online<\/a>. &#8220;I know that by putting myself out there, I&#8217;m going to get some negativity. When people question why I keep having kids, I think it comes from a place of ignorance. The way a lot of people see it, they think a person with a disability has nothing to live for.<\/p>\n<p>Incredibly, Seal says his children are the ones who taught him to have patience and understanding \u2014 even for people insulting him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Seven or eight years ago, I would have blown up at people who made these comments. But from having my kids, I&#8217;ve gained the patience and the understanding to see where they&#8217;re coming from,&#8221; he said. &#8220;As a dad, I&#8217;ve learnt to slow everything down and savour it. There&#8217;s no point being in a rush trying to get to the next step. My kids have taught me patience and to wait. With Reggie, he&#8217;s nearly two and he&#8217;s not walking yet but we&#8217;re not in a rush for him to do that. People say &#8216;he should be walking by now&#8217;, but he&#8217;s got Down[] syndrome and he needs to build the muscle up more. It&#8217;s about being patient. I&#8217;m a salesman so it&#8217;s a fast-paced life, but he&#8217;s taught me to slow it all down.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liveactionnewsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLike\u201d Live Action News on Facebook<\/a>\u00a0for more pro-life news and commentary!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"at-below-post addthis_tool\" data-url=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/double-amputee-model-disability-define\/\" data-title=\"Double amputee and model shows that disability doesn't define her\" data-description=\"Daisy-May Demetre is a double amputee and model who has walked at New York Fashion Week, and is showing the world that disability doesn't hold someone back.\">\n<div id=\"atstbx2\" class=\"at-resp-share-element at-style-responsive addthis-smartlayers addthis-animated at4-show\" role=\"region\" aria-labelledby=\"at-a3e80c76-0640-4fe8-952f-76ba558af40a\">\n<div class=\"at-share-btn-elements\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A father of three in the United Kingdom is speaking out after repeatedly being told to stop having kids \u2014 simply because two of his children have disabilities. Ben Seal has a six-year-old son, Henry, who is autistic, while 17-month-old Reggie has Down syndrome. Six-year-old Amelie and wife Leanne round out the family. 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