{"id":263728,"date":"2022-03-03T12:41:56","date_gmt":"2022-03-03T18:41:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=263728"},"modified":"2022-03-07T20:57:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T02:57:18","slug":"love-them-both-7-ways-help-had-abortion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/love-them-both-7-ways-help-had-abortion\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Them Both: 7 ways to help someone who has had an abortion"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As pro-life activists, we are called to do nothing less than transform the culture. Cultivating a pro-life vision for society involves not only promoting ideas and actions that are life-affirming, but also healing the wounds from the culture of death.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Second in woundedness only to those who have lost their lives are post-abortive women. These women are in great need of support and care, but can be difficult to reach, as they often hide their histories of abortion as a result of regret, shame, and fear of judgment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is possible for you to be a positive, healing presence in the lives of post-abortive women, however. These are a few simple ways for you to help:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. <\/strong><b>Be loving.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> As <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/theyarenotforgotten.com\/author-page\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tori Shaw<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Founder of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/theyarenotforgotten.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not Forgotten Ministries<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, states: \u201cOne of the purest demonstrations of love is to be aware of difficult situations and broken people and willingly choose to move towards them.\u201d Moving toward the wounded means presenting yourself in such a way as to not repel them \u2013 kindness and understanding are key. Shaw continues:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s \u2026 tempting to keep those people at a distance or make it known that we believe they\u2019re wrong. But when we \u201cturn a blind eye\u201d or shout our opinions, it\u2019s like running away from those who need love the most. To have the greatest impact, we must run toward those who are broken, even if we disagree with them, even if they are making terrible choices, and even if the situation is complex and messy.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.guttmacher.org\/news-release\/2017\/abortion-common-experience-us-women-despite-dramatic-declines-rates\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">estimated<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that nearly 1 in 4 American women have had an abortion. What you say on social media and in seemingly casual conversations, and how you present yourself when engaged in pro-life activism can make a defining impact on whether or not you reach these women. Speak truth, but always with charity, remembering that abortion-wounded women who may be desperate for help but afraid to reach out are hiding in plain sight all around you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. <\/strong><b>Listen without judgment.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> If you are chosen as a confidante by a post-abortive woman, be there to listen when she needs to talk. You don&#8217;t need to have all the answers, or be able to relate to everything she is going through \u2013 just be a loving, listening ear. Resist the temptation to interrupt with stories about situations you perceive to be parallel \u2013 she may very well feel like her pain is unlike anything else on this earth, and this strategy may therefore backfire and push her further away. The most important thing is simply to show you respect and care for her by allowing her to speak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. <\/strong><b>Check in.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Self-imposed isolation is common among post-abortive women due to the prevalent belief that nobody else can understand or relate to what they are going through. The culture has told them hundreds of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/post-abortionsyndrome-the_b_3742606\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">times<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in dozens of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2007\/01\/21\/magazine\/21abortion.t.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ways<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that abortion regret is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.plannedparenthood.org\/learn\/abortion\/considering-abortion\/what-facts-about-abortion-do-i-need-know\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">not real<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that they will be able to walk away from the abortion experience without a blip on their existential radars. When this promise fails to become reality, many women question themselves, feeling they must be anomalous in some way, which can cause them to feel disconnected from others.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Particularly if you haven&#8217;t heard from a post-abortive friend for some time, take the time to reach out, and be persistent and consistent about following up. Make sure she knows you care for and are available to her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. <\/strong><b>Familiarize yourself with post-abortive recovery resources<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This short list is a great place to start:<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong><em>Retreats\/Group Classes<\/em><\/strong>:<\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.godeeperstill.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deeper Still<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/theyarenotforgotten.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not Forgotten Ministries<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rachelsvineyard.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rachel\u2019s Vineyard<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shefoundhisgrace.org\/abortion-regret-recovery\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She Found His Grace<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.realoptions.net\/after-abortion-support\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Real Options<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Social Media Support Groups<\/strong>:<\/span><\/em><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/16017309643\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I regret my abortion<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/PostAbortionTransformationHealing\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PATH<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Post-Abortion Transformation and Healing<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Books<\/strong>:<\/span><\/em><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Free-Indeed-Learning-Forgiveness-Abortion\/dp\/1645900207\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1CABRAJVQV08P&amp;keywords=free+indeed+tori+shaw&amp;qid=1641402798&amp;sprefix=Free+Indeed+Tori+%2Caps%2C135&amp;sr=8-1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Free Indeed<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeway.com\/en\/product\/surrendering-the-secret-bible-study-book-P005812686\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Surrendering the Secret<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeway.com\/en\/product\/surrendering-the-secret-group-use-video-bundle-P006108054\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">video<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">-based)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Forgiven-Set-Free-Post-Abortion-Bible\/dp\/0801016622\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=JC6JYX6XVBPO&amp;keywords=forgiven+and+set+free&amp;qid=1641403297&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=forgiven+and%2Cstripbooks%2C143&amp;sr=1-1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forgiven and Set Free<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Saveone-Guide-Emotional-Healing-Abortion\/dp\/1600374379\/ref=sr_1_7?crid=1392ALEYFM092&amp;keywords=saveone&amp;qid=1641403324&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=saveone%2Cstripbooks%2C115&amp;sr=1-7\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SaveOne<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Hotlines<\/strong>:<\/span><\/em><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/h3helpline.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H3Helpline<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: 866-721-7881\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">24\/7 live help in English and Spanish. Live chat available via website.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/optionline.org\/after-abortion-support\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OptionLine<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: 1-800-712-HELP\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">24\/7 live help in English. Live chat available via website; text HELPLINE to 313131 for text messaging.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Websites<\/strong>:<\/span><\/em><\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abortionchangesyou.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abortion Changes You<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/afterabortion.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">AfterAbortion<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/postabortionhelp.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lumina<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.silentnomoreawareness.org\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Silent No More Awareness<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/supportafterabortion.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Support After Abortion<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are familiar with the resources that exist, it will be easier for you to direct those who are in need of help to the sources that provide it. Connecting a post-abortive woman in crisis to the right resource can change, or even save, her life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>READ:\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/post-abortion-trauma-real-researchers-denying\/\">Post-abortion trauma is real, and researchers do women no favors by denying it<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>5. <\/strong><b>Remind her that she is not alone.<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/2050312116665997?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&amp;rfr_id=ori:rid:crossref.org&amp;rfr_dat=cr_pub%20%200pubmed\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cambridge.org\/core\/journals\/the-british-journal-of-psychiatry\/article\/abortion-and-mental-health-quantitative-synthesis-and-analysis-of-research-published-19952009\/E8D556AAE1C1D2F0F8B060B28BEE6C3D\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">meta-analyses<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have found an increase in the risk of mental health pathologies among post-abortive women, in the range of 45-81%. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/full\/10.1111\/pcn.12067\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0165032719301727?via%3Dihub\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">depression<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/070674371005500407?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&amp;rfr_id=ori:rid:crossref.org&amp;rfr_dat=cr_pub%20%200pubmed\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">suicidality<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/070674371005500407?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&amp;rfr_id=ori:rid:crossref.org&amp;rfr_dat=cr_pub%20%200pubmed\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">substance abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.lww.com\/psychosomaticmedicine\/Abstract\/2004\/03000\/Psychological_Impact_on_Women_of_Miscarriage.15.aspx\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">avoidance, guilt, and shame<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are all remarkably common experiences for women walking this path. However, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/core.ac.uk\/reader\/19418389?utm_source=linkout\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social problems<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and isolation are also common \u2013 often motivated by the post-abortive woman\u2019s feeling that nobody else can understand what she is going through. Reminding her that she is not alone and helping to connect her with post-abortive support networks such as those mentioned in the list above can be exceptionally helpful to her healing process.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>6. <\/strong><b>Help her transform her pain to purpose.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Many post-abortive women\u2019s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.silentnomoreawareness.org\/testimonies\/testimony.aspx?ID=4033\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">testimonies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> speak to the powerful <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.silentnomoreawareness.org\/testimonies\/testimony.aspx?ID=4032\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">transformations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that occur when they are able to share their stories, reach out to abortion-minded women, and encourage them to embrace life. You can help a post-abortive woman to find her voice and turn her pain to purpose. This can be done by accompanying her in doing outreach on the sidewalk outside of an abortion facility, by helping her to write her story, or simply by being a voice cheering her on along the way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>7. <\/strong><b>Be patient.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Post-abortive women can provide formidable energy and evidence in support of the pro-life movement, and for that reason, you might feel a great sense of urgency about getting your post-abortive friend to speak out. But women who have made this grave of a mistake must work through an almost inconceivable amount of grief, shame, and fear before they can find their empowered voices. Give her the time and grace she needs for that process, and make sure she knows you are there for her every step of the way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liveactionnewsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLike\u201d Live Action News on Facebook<\/a>\u00a0for more pro-life news and commentary!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As pro-life activists, we are called to do nothing less than transform the culture. Cultivating a pro-life vision for society involves not only promoting ideas and actions that are life-affirming, but also healing the wounds from the culture of death.\u00a0 Second in woundedness only to those who have lost their lives are post-abortive women. 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