{"id":250092,"date":"2021-07-31T15:33:58","date_gmt":"2021-07-31T20:33:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=250092"},"modified":"2021-07-30T15:40:51","modified_gmt":"2021-07-30T20:40:51","slug":"gowns-infant-loss-stillborn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/gowns-infant-loss-stillborn\/","title":{"rendered":"Grieving mother creates burial gowns for families facing pregnancy and infant loss"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p>When Heidi Flint-Jones of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, suffered the tragedy of giving birth to a stillborn child, she felt intense grief when she realized that the hospital had nothing small enough to fit her tiny son for his burial. At\u00a03 \u00bd ounces\u00a0and 6 \u00bd inches long, little\u00a0Matthew Aaron Jones had to be wrapped in a hospital blanket and nothing else.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had a lot of guilt over that,\u201d Flint-Jones told the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jsonline.com\/story\/communities\/south\/news\/south-milwaukee\/2021\/07\/27\/matties-memory-supports-families-who-have-lost-child-during-pregnancy-infancy\/8078210002\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Milwaukee Journal Sentinal<\/a>. She\u00a0wanted to ensure that no other parent who suffered infant loss would carry the same guilt.<\/p>\n<p>As part of her healing process, she founded <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mattiesmemory.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mattie&#8217;s Memory<\/a>, an organization dedicated to providing memory bags, blankets, hats, teddy bears, burial gowns, and bereavement support items to local hospitals for women who suffer pregnancy and infant loss.\u00a0\u201cWe\u2019re set up to help families who experienced the loss of a child during pregnancy and infancy,\u201d Flint-Jones said.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FMattiesMemory%2Fposts%2F4164489530338350&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"465\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The impact of Mattie&#8217;s Memory stretches much further than the local Milwaukee area. Flint-Jones says she has shipped handmade burial gowns across the United States and internationally to\u00a0Mexico, Canada, England, Australia, the United Arab\u00a0Emirates, and more, to families suffering infant loss.<\/p>\n<p>While Flint-Jones does much of the work creating gowns, hats, blankets, and bassinets, she isn&#8217;t alone. She also has a team of helpers including her husband Artrell Jones, her son, and several friends. The community also gets involved. The South Milwaukee School District holds a hat drive for the organization, and a recent GoFundMe to raise money for a new sewing machine reached its goal in just three days after an outpouring of support from donors.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FMattiesMemory%2Fposts%2F4161056347348335&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"643\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Creating memorial items isn&#8217;t the only way that Flint-Jones has found to help others in need. She also works as a doula, providing assistance for women in labor and offering additional support for those who have lost a child. She told the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usnews.com\/news\/best-states\/wisconsin\/articles\/2021-05-22\/wisconsin-mom-starts-burial-gowns-project-for-babies\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Associated Press<\/a> that she is able to guide parents in the process of doing things like getting a stillbirth certificate for their child.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you don\u2019t know about it, the hospitals won\u2019t do it for you,\u201d she said. \u201cThey\u2019ll do your birth certificate, they\u2019ll do your death certificate, but that stillbirth certificate \u2014 you have to fight for it.\u201d She is also working\u00a0to get a tax credit for parents of stillborn children passed in the Wisconsin Legislature.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/photos-baby-14-weeks-couldnt-let-life-count-nothing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Mother shares photos of baby miscarried at 14 weeks: \u2018He is very obviously human\u2019<\/em><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When describing how to help grieving parents, Flint-Jones said,\u00a0\u201cBe there, lend your support. If you don\u2019t know what to say just say you\u2019re sorry for their loss and be there.&#8221; She also emphasized that it&#8217;s important to &#8220;acknowledge the child. At the end of the day, regardless of the outcome, that child was wanted, loved, and longed for.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liveactionnewsonline\/\">\u201cLike\u201d Live Action News on Facebook<\/a>\u00a0for more pro-life news and commentary!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Heidi Flint-Jones of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, suffered the tragedy of giving birth to a stillborn child, she felt intense grief when she realized that the hospital had nothing small enough to fit her tiny son for his burial. 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