{"id":244374,"date":"2021-05-04T09:43:19","date_gmt":"2021-05-04T14:43:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=244374"},"modified":"2021-05-04T11:47:29","modified_gmt":"2021-05-04T16:47:29","slug":"former-abortion-supporters-say-minds-changed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/former-abortion-supporters-say-minds-changed\/","title":{"rendered":"Former abortion supporters describe how their minds were changed"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p>(<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.secularprolife.org\/2021\/04\/we-asked-you-answered-how-former-pro.html\">Secular Pro-Life<\/a>)\u00a0We asked our Facebook followers: &#8220;For those of you who used to be pro-choice, what made you change your mind?&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/secularprolife\/posts\/3956672911064696\">The post blew up<\/a>, with hundreds of thoughtful comments. Here are just a few of our favorites.<\/p>\n<p><b>Jamie S.:<\/b> Actually listening to pro-life people instead of just dismissing them, and researching the science of the developing embryo as my unborn baby developed inside of me. I began questioning what I was actually fighting for &#8211; what could be more important than the tiny little life that was growing inside of me, whose sole protector was me?<\/p>\n<p><b>Bradley B.:<\/b>\u00a0I hate to admit this but it was one of those great big billboards showing baby remains on my college campus. In my case it was an arm and a torso next to a dime. It was just so visceral and made me truly stop and consider what we are doing.<\/p>\n<p><b>Maribel L.:<\/b> First sonogram of my little bean, who we then lost. Completely solidified when I saw my 26 weeker grow in an incubator. I saw his eyelashes grow out during his stay. You can&#8217;t convince me that is NOT a person in the womb, no matter the gestational age.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tess S.:\u00a0<\/b>Basically realizing that it was inconsistent to support abortion being legal only in the first trimester if abortion needs to be available because of bodily autonomy. I never agreed with late-term abortion but I thought it should be legal in the first trimester. Eventually I came to realize that the only really consistent positions to take was either the pro-life position or allow abortion basically up until birth. I thought about how generally speaking we see humans as valuable because of what they are, regardless of ability or age.<\/p>\n<p><b>Chad K.:<\/b> Science made me change my mind.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ:\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/former-abortionist-congress-sanitized-language-make-abortion-palatable\/\">Former abortionist who became pro-life: \u2018I realized that the baby was the innocent victim in all of this\u2019<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cpdY97GOK2I\" width=\"640\" height=\"355\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>KC K.:<\/b>\u00a0Hearing conversion stories from former abortionists, especially Dr. Bernard Nathanson.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><b>Lynn W.:<\/b>\u00a0Found out how MANY abortions were done, and then decided one was too many, after befriending numerous women who experienced long-lasting trauma from their abortions.<\/p>\n<p><b>William A.:<\/b>\u00a0Their rhetoric is convincing if you don&#8217;t think about it. The &#8220;abortions will still happen even if you make them illegal&#8221; was convincing to me for a long time till I realized if we apply that logic equally nothing may as well be illegal.<\/p>\n<p><b>Stefan S.:<\/b>\u00a0I used to say to myself &#8220;I personally would never want anyone I&#8217;m with to have an abortion, but everyone else has that choice.&#8221; But I slowly came to the realization that morality can&#8217;t be fluid. It&#8217;s a fixed idea. Therefore if I believed it was wrong for myself, it must be wrong for everyone. Arrogant, I know, but that was really only the first step.<\/p>\n<p><b>Elise M.:<\/b>\u00a0I used to be pro-choice in that I saw abortion as killing, but I reasoned that sometimes killing is justified (like in self-defense). Then, once I explored the actual reasons that someone would need to end a pregnancy in order to save their life, I quickly realized that abortion was never medically necessary. In a medical emergency, it&#8217;s far quicker to deliver a baby via c-section, than to perform a late-term abortion. I also learned that most life-threatening medical complications in pregnancy occur later on, when an abortion is actually full-on labor and delivery of a dead baby. This completely changed my mind and made me see that abortion was never necessary. Even if the baby would certainly die if delivered early, it&#8217;s still acceptable if the life of the mom is at stake. What&#8217;s not acceptable is killing the baby first and then delivering it. What nonsense.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lisa D.:<\/b>\u00a0When safe, legal, and rare became commonplace, desirable, and celebrated.<\/p>\n<p><b>Robert W.:\u00a0<\/b>Becoming a mortician. When you deal with death every day you realize how valuable all lives are, at every stage of development.<\/p>\n<p><b>Peggy A.:\u00a0<\/b>The total subjectivity and intellectual dissonance of &#8211; if the baby is wanted it&#8217;s tragic if there&#8217;s miscarriage but if the pregnancy is unplanned &#8230; completely ok and even celebrated to end the baby&#8217;s life. My own deep grief &#8211; when I couldn\u2019t even describe it as that &#8211; testified to the inherent worth of my child&#8217;s life.<\/p>\n<p><em>Editor&#8217;s Note:\u00a0This article was published at Secular Pro-life and is reprinted here with permission.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liveactionnewsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLike\u201d Live Action News on Facebook<\/a>\u00a0for more pro-life news and commentary!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Secular Pro-Life)\u00a0We asked our Facebook followers: &#8220;For those of you who used to be pro-choice, what made you change your mind?&#8221; The post blew up, with hundreds of thoughtful comments. Here are just a few of our favorites. 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