{"id":241512,"date":"2021-03-15T11:27:54","date_gmt":"2021-03-15T16:27:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=241512"},"modified":"2021-03-11T22:49:24","modified_gmt":"2021-03-12T04:49:24","slug":"teen-mother-refused-abort-down-syndrome-pressure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/teen-mother-refused-abort-down-syndrome-pressure\/","title":{"rendered":"Teen mother refused to abort son with Down syndrome despite intense pressure"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p>In a <a href=\"https:\/\/positiveaboutdownsyndrome.co.uk\/nobodytoldme\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">book collecting stories<\/a> from family members of children with Down syndrome,\u00a0Danielle Urie tells the story of her son, Steven.\u00a0In 2010, Urie was 16 and pregnant. She delighted in seeing her child on the ultrasound screen, but after the third scan, she received some unsettling news from her doctors:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>The first two scans were amazing \u2013 seeing my precious baby on that dark screen, to say I was buzzing about life would have been an understatement. At the 16 week scan, the nurse told me I had to come back the next day to the fetal medicine unit.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Doctors told her her baby had a condition called tricuspid atresia and would need major surgery when born.\u00a0Urie said, \u201cI was in deep shock\u2026 I really didn&#8217;t know how to feel.\u201d But doctors encouraged her to have an abortion. Urie refused:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>He was my baby and I was going to do whatever was needed. Doctors advised me to get a termination. I couldn&#8217;t do it. They gave me half an hour to decide \u2013 I didn&#8217;t need half an hour. I told them there and then there was no possibility I was going to abort. They told me Steven wouldn&#8217;t be able to have a good quality of life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Not only did doctors pressure Urie to abort, but they also gave her only half an hour to make up her mind. They pressured her to make a quick decision in a moment of emotional trauma. Many women, still in the middle of processing the news that their child would have a severe health problem, would have given in the doctors\u2019 pressure and aborted. Urie did not.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/d6GewCpuC30\" width=\"640\" height=\"355\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe>\n<\/p>\n<p>Although problems with the baby\u2019s heart were found not to be as serious as originally believed, at 37 weeks, doctors told her her son had Down syndrome:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>The doctors came in with a very worried look, they said, &#8220;We&#8217;re sorry but your baby will possibly be born with Down syndrome.&#8221; I was worried, I was scared, I was sad \u2013 all because of the negative way I was addressed by the doctors.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The doctors presented Down syndrome as a tragedy, leading Urie to feel frightened and uncertain about the future. But nine years later, Urie was very happy she chose life. She said:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>[I]n August 2011 I gave birth to not only my best friend but the most amazing, beautiful, kindhearted little boy in the whole world. They said, &#8220;We&#8217;re sorry, but Steven has Down syndrome.&#8221; I looked down and thought, &#8220;Okay, son, let&#8217;s do this &#8211; no matter what, we will get there together.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Steven was also born with Hirschsprung&#8217;s disease in the bowel. He has a permanent ileostomy bag. He has had 18 operations including heart surgery.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ:\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/mom-pressured-abort-down-syndrome\/\">Mom pressured to abort baby with Down syndrome: My daughter was \u2018completely dehumanized\u2019<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Urie\u2019s entire family fell in love with little Steven. In fact, when her sister became pregnant, she hoped for a child with Down syndrome too:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Nine years later and my sister Chelsea is pregnant. We were at the midwife the other day and Chelsea wanted the screening test and she wanted it to come back high risk! The midwife said, &#8220;Oh, that&#8217;s great news, you&#8217;re one in 1500,&#8221; and we both said, &#8220;Aw, that&#8217;s crap!&#8221; The midwife looked confused. I told her that I actually have a son who has Down syndrome \u2013 she soon changed her tune!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Despite what doctors said, Steven\u2019s life is worth living, and he is very loved. Doctors\u2019 insistence on abortion and their negative portrayal of life with a disability show the ableism rampant in modern medicine which threatens the lives of the disabled, through assisted suicide and abortion.<\/p>\n<h5>Source: Nicola Enoch <a href=\"https:\/\/positiveaboutdownsyndrome.co.uk\/nobodytoldme\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>#NobodyToldMe: The Truth about Down Syndrome<\/em><\/a> (tantamount, 2020) 14<\/h5>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liveactionnewsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLike\u201d Live Action News on Facebook<\/a>\u00a0for more pro-life news and commentary!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a book collecting stories from family members of children with Down syndrome,\u00a0Danielle Urie tells the story of her son, Steven.\u00a0In 2010, Urie was 16 and pregnant. 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