{"id":228525,"date":"2020-08-07T10:26:49","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T15:26:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.liveaction.org\/news\/?p=228525"},"modified":"2020-08-06T11:36:04","modified_gmt":"2020-08-06T16:36:04","slug":"lack-regret-abortion-doesnt-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/lack-regret-abortion-doesnt-right\/","title":{"rendered":"A woman&#8217;s lack of regret for an abortion doesn\u2019t make it right"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div><p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this guest post are solely those of the author and are not necessarily reflective of Live Action or Live Action News.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abortion activist Renee Bracey Sherman recently wrote in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newsweek.com\/abortion-15-years-ago-today-best-decision-made-1522441?utm_term=Autofeed&amp;utm_medium=Social&amp;utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1596531831\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Newsweek<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about the 15<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">th<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> anniversary of her abortion. Sherman shared how easy her choice to abort was and that even now, 15 years later, she still doesn\u2019t regret it. She said abortion<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u201cwas \u2013 and still is \u2013 the best decision I ever made.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After reading Sherman\u2019s op-ed, it would be easy to view abortion in a positive light. We look at her life post-abortion and see a woman appearing to thrive. But personal narratives do not negate truth, and stories like Sherman\u2019s shouldn\u2019t influence us to deem a wrong as a right. Abortion is a travesty, no matter how the woman feels about it afterward.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our feelings and emotions are often subjective barometers. They can swoop and sway us wherever the wind blows and help blind us to the sin in ourselves and in the world. Sin hardens our hearts, not only dulling our ability to discern what\u2019s true, but causing us to accept and celebrate what God opposes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Particularly in our me-centered culture today, hardened hearts can compel us to make decisions with only ourselves in view. We weigh the consequences of a certain decision in light of our own life and circumstances. The world applauds us as we look out for ourselves, just as we applaud others as they do the same.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why stories like Sherman\u2019s can lead to destructive aftermaths. They help perpetuate the love of self already rampant in our society as they encourage others to elevate their interests above others.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sherman\u2019s piece in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Newsweek<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> does not speak about the needs of anyone besides herself \u2013 most notably the life and needs of her baby. She wrote, \u201cWas my body \u2018the most dangerous place for an African American\u2019 as one anti-abortion billboard told me? Is \u2018our next leader aborted every 21 minutes\u2019 as another said, alongside an image of President Barack Obama?\u201d She said she knew the answer was \u201cno.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She does not grasp that her baby was a real, live human being with a beating heart, a future, and a soul. She feels no regret because she doesn\u2019t seem to understand that the biggest impact of her abortion has nothing to do with her, but with the defenseless person who lost his or her life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cpdY97GOK2I\" width=\"640\" height=\"355\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In reality, the rosy picture Sherman paints does not represent the masses of post-abortive women in America. It may not actually even represent her, as it\u2019s possible she inwardly feels grief. Studies show that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/archive.liveaction.org\/news\/abortion-regret-pro-abortion-moms-bottling-tears\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">many women regret their abortions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that, compared with women who have not had an abortion, post-abortive women have a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/21881096\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">higher likelihood<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of depression, addiction, and suicide.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sherman thinks pro-lifers want her to feel regret and shame. She said, \u201cI believe that what most upsets people who attack me is that I love myself, publicly\u2026 I don\u2019t hate myself, and I think that makes people angry.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is simply not true. The pro-life community doesn\u2019t desire for her to hate herself because she chose to abort her child. Rather, we care for her and every other post-abortive woman, and we want them to know the mercy and goodness of Jesus. He is gracious to forgive us and allow us to walk in total freedom, without one ounce of shame for any of our mistakes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What we don\u2019t want is for a woman\u2019s subjective feelings and experiences to distort what\u2019s true as it portrays abortion as a moral good. Labeling abortion \u201cas the best decision of my life\u201d will only influence more people to support this deadly atrocity, resulting in more women walking down this painful road and more babies losing their precious lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Amanda Sherzer is a writer in Dallas, Texas. She is a Dallas Seminary graduate and a former aide to First Lady Barbara Bush and White House writer for President and Mrs. George W. Bush. You can follow her on twitter <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">@amanda_sherzer<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liveactionnewsonline\/\"><b><i>\u201cLike\u201d Live Action News on Facebook<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> for more pro-life news and commentary!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this guest post are solely those of the author and are not necessarily reflective of Live Action or Live Action News. Abortion activist Renee Bracey Sherman recently wrote in Newsweek about the 15th anniversary of her abortion. 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