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(Equal Rights Institute Blog<\/a>) Imagine you were talking to someone about child abuse, and they said, \u201cYou know, I understand that you\u2019re personally against it, but I think we should trust parents<\/b> to make the right decisions for their families.\u201d Would you feel like their comment about trust was a meaningful contribution to the discussion or a bizarre red herring?<\/p>\n

When abortion-choice advocates speak about abortion they often say we need to trust women to make their own decisions. They say that abortion is an especially personal choice that we should trust women to make for themselves because they are the experts of their own lives.<\/p>\n

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This rhetoric is an unfair representation of the pro-life position because it implies that pro-life people do not trust women. It insinuates that people oppose legal abortion because they think women are inadequate and unable to make choices about their lives. This is a common and false accusation of pro-life people.<\/p>\n

Pro-life people are not opposed to abortion because they distrust women. Implying that misogyny is influencing their position on abortion is a misleading sidestep of the real issue. Pro-life people think that a woman should be able to make her own decisions about which doctor she wants, what clothing she wears, her career, her education and many other choices which men have as well. There are some choices, however, which are dangerous or violent in some way.<\/strong> These choices deserve careful examination by the public to determine if they should be against the law. Examples of these choices would be drinking and driving, vandalism, or assault. The choice to kill people should clearly<\/i> be against the law. Pro-lifers argue that human embryos are people, so you can\u2019t kill them.<\/p>\n

READ:\u00a0Exposing the six lies of Roe v. Wade that led to legal abortion<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagine there is a woman named Jessica[1]<\/a><\/sup> who is the mother of a three-year-old daughter, Makayla. Her daughter is one of those children who is always making a mess, throwing fits at Target, and cutting her own bangs. Jessica feels like she has had enough, so she decides that she wants to kill her daughter and make it look like an accident. She tells her best friend Emma about her plan and Emma objects. She says that it would be clearly wrong for Jessica to do this. Jessica replies:<\/p>\n

Jessica: <\/b>You don\u2019t understand what I am going through. I have given this plenty of thought, it is my choice. Why don\u2019t you trust me to make my own decisions?<\/p>\n

Emma:<\/b> What? This isn\u2019t about trust, I am saying that killing Makayla is not a moral solution.<\/p>\n

Jessica:<\/b> You\u2019re only saying that because I am a woman. Why don\u2019t you trust women? If I was Makayla\u2019s father then people would be lining up to help me instead of trying to control my choices! Women are just as strong and capable as men in our ability to control our lives. I wish you would see that.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

If Jessica\u2019s responses sound bizarre that is because it is deceptive<\/b> to respond to someone who makes a moral objection to your actions by accusing them of not trusting you. It is a tactic meant to seize the moral higher ground. Jessica is deflecting Emma\u2019s concern by trying to change the conversation with an accusation of misogyny. She is trying to tell Emma her moral compass is broken and her insight on this issue is corrupt because of the way she sees women. It may seem strange for a woman to accuse another woman of misogyny, but the pro-life movement, which is largely led by women, regularly receives the same accusation from pro-choice people. Even if women didn\u2019t play a significant role in leading the pro-life movement, it would still be an absurd objection. Jessica\u2019s words would be no less deceptive if Emma was a man. No one <\/b>should be trusted to decide whether or not to kill an innocent person, and pro-life advocates argue that abortion kills an innocent person.<\/p>\n

You may feel like my example is not comparable to abortion because Makayla is a young child, not a human embryo. If you think pro-life people are wrong to claim that the two deserve the same moral consideration, then that\u2019s the argument you should make. Put down the insults and accusations. Instead, make an argument to show why you think we are wrong about the value of the human embryo….<\/p>\n

Continue reading at the Equal Rights Institute Blog<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Editor’s Note: This article was originally published at the Equal Rights Institute Blog<\/a> and is reprinted here with permission.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(Equal Rights Institute Blog) Imagine you were talking to someone about child abuse, and they said, \u201cYou know, I understand that you\u2019re personally against it, but I think we should trust parents to make the right decisions for their families.\u201d Would you feel like their comment about trust was a meaningful contribution to the discussion […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":602,"featured_media":128745,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false},"categories":[15,7077],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nWhy 'Trust Women' is a dishonest attempt to label pro-lifers as anti-woman<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"No one should be trusted to decide whether or not to kill an innocent person, and pro-life advocates argue that abortion kills an innocent person.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" 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