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Civil conversation and care for others is key - yet we should never back down from speaking the truth. Photo credit: felipe.cabrera on Flickr.<\/p><\/div>\n

Today, I expected to have a peaceful day at the Gardens I was visiting with my daughter, husband, and mom. And it was peaceful \u2013 mostly, that is. I called my husband to let him know we had arrived, and he informed me that people from Planned Parenthood were standing close to the entrance. They had asked him if he supported Planned Parenthood, and he replied, \u201cYes. I support shutting them down.\u201d Personally, I really like that answer. It\u2019s creative and opens doors to share the truth we know with people in the abortion industry.<\/p>\n

While my husband is a non-confrontational, kind person, he is never afraid to stand up for what he believes in. This is one of the many reasons I admire him so much. I wish all pro-lifers could have his balance.<\/p>\n

When I arrived, he was still talking to the people from Planned Parenthood \u2013 one guy and one girl were there. My husband had just asked the guy if he would like to know the reasons why my husband does not support Planned Parenthood. The guy replied, \u201cNo, I don\u2019t think I have the time for that.\u201d (I would have probably said, \u201cThat\u2019s probably right. The list is way too long.\u201d)<\/p>\n

The guy from Planned Parenthood had been quite confrontational and rude, but he did not care for my husband to express his opinion. While my husband stood waiting for me, the guy asked him to \u201cstop staring at them\u201d and informed him that he couldn\u2019t tell whether or not he was blinking since my husband was wearing sunglasses. (Yes, he really said that.) He also accused my husband of being angry and hating them, although he was the one who had told my husband he didn\u2019t want to talk to him.<\/p>\n

In my opinion \u2013 whether you\u2019re pro-life or pro-choice \u2013 you invite conversations when you stand in public places collecting signatures or campaigning for support. You should never be rude to those who attempt to engage you in civil conversation (as my husband did), even if you disagree.<\/p>\n

At one point, my husband and I had to return to our car to get a diaper for our little girl. As we passed the Planned Parenthood workers who were still trying to talk to people and get support, my husband told the girl that he did not support Planned Parenthood and kept walking.<\/p>\n

When we passed these two again on our way back into the Gardens, the guy approached my husband once more, standing very<\/em> close to him. He accused my husband of cursing out the girl who was with him. Since I was right there, I know for a fact that my husband did not do this. (In fact, I\u2019ve never heard him curse once in the over four years I\u2019ve known him.) He had simply stated that he did not support Planned Parenthood. Someone was either lying or needed his ears checked! As the conversation continued, my husband said, \u201cI do not dislike you. I dislike the organization you work for<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

This is a principle that many of us in the pro-life world could stand to learn: as much as we dislike Planned Parenthood and abortion, let us not dislike the people<\/em> in the abortion industry. Had we been raised differently, not experienced a conversion, or a multitude of other things, we could be them. As hard as that is to admit, we could just as easily fall into wrong actions as anyone else.<\/p>\n

Since I am a Christian, I thank God that I\u2019ve seen the light and that I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that abortion is wrong. Yet, instead of hating those who disagree with me \u2013 or even attack and argue with me \u2013 I ought to approach them with an attitude of care, concern, and prayer. I want to learn the balance my husband has. I want to always hate abortion and dislike Planned Parenthood, but I want to love people<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Love does not mean failing to expose wrong. Love does not mean accepting abortion. Love does not mean standing on the sidelines. In fact, love means the opposite of all that. Pro-lifers should never use \u201clove\u201d as an excuse to be silent; rather, we should use it as a reason to reach out to everyone<\/em> around us in a caring way.<\/p>\n

How have you learned to love people while still hating abortion and speaking the truth about Planned Parenthood? Share your lessons and experiences below! If you’re pro-choice, what have pro-lifers said to you that has made you want to listen?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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